leatherman's log  
May May 2010
Week One |   Week Two |   Week Three |   Week Four |   Week Five

Week One:
Though I'm starting off this month by probably having the pool ready to go on the first and on that same day volunteering to man the health fair booth for several hours for my ASO, the Catawba Care Clinic, at the annual Fort Mill "Strawberry Festival", but those updates will have to wait. Instead, much weightier issues lie on mind as the month of May starts and continue until it ends.
Many of you know (especially if you received the last update notice), that as May starts much of my mind is occupied by thoughts of Jim, who passed away just two short years ago on May 1st.

So much of my life has changed in those two years, and though I appreciate all the help I received from my friends, my GrandMother, my Mom and her husband in getting me and the boyz to SC, I would still trade it all to have been able to stay in Ohio with Jim for another 20, 30. 50 yrs. or more.
As I go to work in the CCC booth, all I can think about is how foolish we were (Jim, my doctor, and myself) for all those years to have not gotten Jim tested. "If only" I had truly been the "perfect", the "responsible" person I so try to be, then Jim would have been tested, and would have been treated, and perhaps never even developed the non-Hodgkin's lymphoma that led to his death. Now all I can hope is that I learned from that foolishness and pass along the right information to the right person, so that they go get tested for HIV, and treated in time to avoid the same fate as Jim.
Though I would like us all to focus on the things we knew and loved about Jim, I would be remiss if I didn't mention that on May 25th, I will be remembering the 16th anniversary of the passing of my beloved Randy.

CCC and leatherman
@ the Strawberry Festival
Reminding me of the Football Hall of Fame Festival that Canton, OH holds at the end of July year, Fort Mill, SC holds the South Carolina Strawberry Festival every year filled with pageants, parades, fireworks, food events, and vendors in the parks. Instead of football inductees and a game though, this festival has strawberry daiquiris and strawberry shortcake.
The event in the park on Saturday also featured a section called "Healthy Hometown", where my ASO Catawba Care Coalition set up a display booth to promote the agency, the work they do in a tri-county area, and to encourage people to get tested and to practice safe sex.
Piedmont Medical Center the hospital in Rock Hill (where I had my endoscopy done earlier in the year) sponsored part of the festival where the CCC health fair booth was set up.
Piedmont set up a venue entitled "Healthy Hometown". With blue and gold tents over tables with blue or gold tablecloths lining both sides of the lane, Piedmont enlisted all sorts of health care agencies to join. There were tables for various doctors, cancer agencies, and for the Catawba Care Coalition.
 
Located just a few booths from the beginning, the Catawba Care Coalition booth was in an excellent location.
Inside the tent, we set up the tri-board display which has information and pictures regarding the agency and the work they do. We also have several pamphlets, brochures and cards laid out on the table to give our visitors more information that they can take home - information about the agency and how to volunteer. Other pamphlets have information about HIV - information about testing, about medications, about the agency's health care services.
mIkIe
leatherman
ComputerTutor
Farmer
Gardener
Landscaper
Pool Installer

and now,
HIV Prevention/Detection Counselor
When I took over the booth in the afternoon, they told me that only about a half a dozen people had stopped by the booth. Well, of course not! Our candy dish was empty and we had no "freebies" to offer. But not to worry, Leatherman had a fix for that with the Life Savers and Smarties that he had brought to nosh on for a snack. Within a few minutes of filling up the candy dish, I began to have visitors to the tent. Of course, no one wanted to look like they're just scamming me for my free candy, so the visitors began to look at the display and pamphlets and ask questions about the agency. All I needed was the opportunity and I was able to get out Jim and Randy's message to get tested and get treated. By the end of the day, (brought on about half an hour early with a small rain shower) over 30 people had come into the tent on my 3-hr shift, of which 7 had taken literature with them and 2 had taken the packs of free condoms.

More Sad News for a Sad Month
Not long after I arrived at the Strawberry Festival, I received a phone call from a friend in Ohio - the kind of phone call no one likes to receive. My friend, Mike P. called me with the sad news that earlier in the morning of May 1st, his mother Pam had passed away from a massive heart attack. Pam had been sickish a few years ago with heart issues and was dealing with diabetes; but suddenly passing away like that was very unexpected for all of us.
 
Looking through my pictures, I came across these pool pictures when Pam was over to a pool party that Jim and I held on July 17, 2006. I'm very happy to have these picture and a mini-video of Pam having such a good time.
 
What a poignant picture this is of Jim and Pam
both who would pass away on May 1st. just two years apart.

The Fruits of my Labor
The whole object of growing a garden is to end up with vegetables to eat. Up till now, I've been happy just to show you pictures of tiny plants and sometimes nothing more than leaves. But just this week, I've begun to actually see the fruits of my labors - well, I guess that should actually be the "vegetables of my labors".
Just a flower yesterday, today it's a baby Yellow Longneck Squash
A handful of Roma Tomatoes are plumping up
A baby Bell Pepper
Both Broccoli plants have started
forming heads in the center of each plant.
Radishes,
tiny but growing
 
What a hodge-podge of cantaloupes that are hopefully growing in my garden.
On the left is one started from seed, and one planted as a seedling and nearly killed off by a cold night,
while the two on the right side are store bought seedling, one growing well, and one rather sickly.

zucchini

okra
Some seeds that I grew in one of my Coke Bottle Greenhouses were ready to plant.
In the section of the garden where the lettuce failed to sprout, I now have zucchini and okra planted and growing.
Some of these seeds I planted never germinated and one of my greenhouses got knocked over. To rectify this situation, since it's still early in the season, I replanted several things into new "greenhouses", which I am keeping safe and protected this time in this orange crate. Hopefully, these seeds will grow better this time and I'll have a few more things to finish planting in the garden this year.
 
There are even a few edible things planted over by my fountain.
I have several pots of white radishes, and a few pots of an assorted lettuce mix.
 
Though there are also some real fruits on the property too.
The apple tree, blueberry bushes and the pear trees all have fruit growing on them.

Non-Edible Plants
Many of the flowers around the property have finished blooming for the time being - but not all of them!
About half of the irises are in bloom and they are quite beautiful!
 
Several wild rose bushes
on the property are also blooming.
Several plants have yet to bloom though.
The peonies in the front and back yards will be opening within the next week or so.
However, the morning glories and hollyhocks have a loooong way to go before they bloom.

Pool Time!
I can't believe it's the beginning of May and the pool is open!
I've never had the pool open so soon, much less being in the water; but then again this is South Carolina and definitely NOT Ohio. Of course, I do have to be totally honest and say that the water is still slightly chilly (70 degrees) and they have been telling me that this has been an usually warm Spring down here. But I'm not complaining!! While the last of the water was filling the pool up to the brim, it was time to test the waters. I mean someone just had to get in to start skimming with the net and cleaning the floating debris.
MouseOver CloseUp Specials
 
But it's not technically "swimming in the pool" until your head goes under the water.
All of these are MouseOver CloseUp Specials too!
Damn! That was cold!

Pool Time - Day Two
 
There's nothing like lounging around in the pool with a can of Coke on a hot Spring afternoon.
It's the pause that refreshes.
(LOL I have drunk so much Coke in my life that I have become one of their commercials. LOL)
 
Since it was a much warmer day and the second one in a row,
taking a dip in the water wasn't nearly so chilly this time.
A new pool needs a new swimsuit. I haven't gotten a chance to get to a sporting goods for new speedos (and you know I'm not going to find those at a K-Mart or Walmart in South Carolina. LOL But I get these nifty board shorts that are color coordinated with the pool.

Week Two:
A Touch of History
Going through my old photo books (you know, how you had to look at pictures before digital cameras and blogs entered our lives. ) for some old pictures of me and my Mom, I came across some pictures I took of the Charlotte skyline in 1980 before I went off to college. I moved up to Ohio 4 short years later. After scanning in those pictures, I went online and found some pictures of the skyline in 2010. Wow! It's amazing how much the city grew and changed over the years when I was in Ohio.
"The Queen City"
circa 1980
circa 2010

Mom and mIkIe
With Mothers Day approaching, and everyone on FaceBook posting pictures of them and their moms, I figured I'd join in the festivities.

So here are some pictures of
leatherman and his Mom
Celia and baby leatherman
1962
mIkIe, Mom,
and the first dog named "Belle"
1965
Mom hugs mIkIe
on his return from the first semester away at college.
1981

This is the infamous moment in which my mom greeted me with "Oh, you're so thin, and your hair is going gray!" That's how I found out, at 18, that my hair was turning white!

Mother's Day
For Mother's Day, we made arrangements once again to take lunch over to Nana's house.
Lunch was smoked turkey, cornbread stuffing with cranberries, cranberry sauce, crescent rolls, asparagus covered in melted cheddar, potato salad, and ranch pasta salad. Bringing over plates, serving bowls, tea, butter and even a fresh peony took only minutes to put out onto the table.
We did use Nana's silverware though, and this gravy boat my Aunt Beth gave Nana. Mom and I both would love to steal this ceramic chicken gravy boat because it's just too damned cute - and it works well too.
Of course, I wished my own Mom a Happy Mother's Day, and I send special Mother's Day wishes out to my Mom-in-Law Carolynn (Randy's mom) back in Ohio. Although I lost my OhioMom, I still feel pretty special knowing two moms are looking out for me.
Nana was very pleased with the lunch, her cards, and a stack of crossword puzzle books.

Around the Yard
   
   
Although the cactus that I planted doesn't seem to be doing much (but at least it isn't dying LOL); the cactus that was originally in the garden has all been growing quite a bit.
Out front and in the backyard,
the "lamb's ears" are breaking
out into tiny purple flowers.
   
The peonies flowers are such huge blooms that they are weighting the branches down to the ground
   
The ring is caused by sunlight or moonlight being diffracted as it passes through cirrostratus clouds that are usually at altitudes above 20,000 feet. Cirrostratus clouds are composed mostly of small ice crystals that spread out into a thin layer. They are sheet-like, and the sun and moon can be seen through them easily.
All spring butterflies have been flittering all over the property. I haven't seen the big black and blue butterflies lately; but I have been seeing a batch of these black and orange butterflies flying all over the yards.
An Early Harvest!

The garden has produced some food now! I harvested a big handful of radishes and parsley.

Family Pool Days
With the pool up and ready, and the weather very hot, it was time to get the rest of the family into the water.
Mom obviously doesn't realize that cameras record their snapshot for all posterity; but after I explained that I needed a good picture of her for this website, I got her to smile with the pool toys. Oh and I had the funny picture of her sticking out her tongue for the website update too.
Dennis tries the same face that Mom did for his first picture. I'm going to have to teach these people how to have their picture taken - you SMILE at the camera, you don't stick out your tongue.
Wow! Although I might still have to teach them about having their pix taken, I've already got Mom and Dennis trained on pool maintenance. Within minutes of being in the pool, they had the net out, scooping bugs and leaves out of the water.
 
The following day was another warm one again, and Mom decided to enjoy the pool.
Though she thought the water was a bit cold when she was getting in.... ... she quickly warmed up to the luxury of having a pool and how to use it.

Week Three:
 
I spent 10 hours this week going through Peer Counseling Training sponsored by my ASO. The clinic would like to be able to pair up new clients with older clients (their peers) to help guide the new people through the processes of getting blood work, the initial paperwork and just dealing with the consequences of being HIV positive.

I feel like I've already been doing quite a bit of this with online people at AidsMeds.com, so it should be interesting helping out real live people living in our area.

An old Friend Poke His Head in to Say "Hi"
Did you ever have one of those weeks? Well, my old friend, The Curse" showed up this week to pay us a visit. You know him. He can never leave well enough alone and sure doesn't want to be forgotten.
 
First the washer broke down. Of course, it was after a wash cycle and then it wouldn't spin or drain. Luckily, a repairman was able to come out the next morning and install a new timer unit. WooHoo! We'll have clean clothes still!
 
Then Mom's printer/scanner started to make a terrible grinding noise. Of course, it wouldn't print either. So the next day we went shopping and got another house printer to replace that one.
 
Then, horror of horrors, my camera died! Having read through my blog for the nearly 12 years that it's been online, you can surely understand how terrible it is for me to be without a camera. Think about that. No pictures means all you'd have to see here would be words - lots and lots of words as I wrote even more trying to keep you entertained without images.
Thankfully, Mom loaned me her camera for a new days, while I waited for the new one I ordered to arrive. I actually got the updated version of the one that I had. It was very nice for the upgrade camera to cost less than half the price of my dead one and with double the pixel quality.
   
Testing out the new camera - on myself!
Learning all the ins and outs of the camera, got me the crazy flash picture in the mirror, showing the dust on the glass.

New Camera = Pet Pictures
With a new camera in hand, it was time to try it out and see what the differences were to my last camera. I took off around the yards taking pictures of the plants -
and the pets!

Mr. Kitty was enjoying a nice warm sunny afternoon on the front porch.
   
Sunny stopped on the ramp down the stairs from the back down and posed for several photos.
Later in the evening when Mom tried to use my camera, Sunny wasn't as willing to pose as she had been earlier in the day.

I guess this is a "Gratuitous Crotch Shot" rather than the usual "Gratuitous Butt Shot".

The Garden
Everything in the garden has been happily growing with days of sun and days of rain moving the area the last few weeks.
The back view of the Herb Garden.... ....and the front view.
The cantaloupe plants are about to start spreading out of their area any day.
The back view, with sunflowers and a rose bush, of the small raised bed.... ....and the front view of the cucumbers beginning to crawl up the trellis.
   
the back side of the large bed showing the broccoli.... ....and the front side with the tomatoes growing on the trellis.
mmm, heads of broccoli the first red bell pepper
Yellow-neck Squash
   
   
But it isn't just the garden growing. There's plenty growing in the pots by the fountain, near my back porch.

A pot of mixed lettuce will make a good salad
  The Hens-n-Chicks are going crazy growing tall and putting forth small flowers.
The morning glories are quickly climbing the trellis each day by several inches. Sometime this week the vines should reach the top, and after that, it won't be long until morning glory flowers from back on 12th St Canton, OH begin to bloom in sunny South Carolina.
The Hollyhocks continue to grow too.
   
MouseOver Special  
Mom and Dennis picked up a few more plants for me to put in around the yards. Since the cosmos aren't doing so well behind the pear trees, further up in the front yard, I've started another flower bed of cosmos. Behind the pet cemetery, I dug out a bed that wrapped around the back corner. To give the seeds some encouragement to grow, Mom picked up a container with several blooming cosmos that I planted in this area.
 
Replacing a dead azalea out in the front woods, I planted this toad lily.
While over by the lattice wall hiding the well pump and garbage cans, I planted a Carolina Jasmine. I can't wait till this grows up and blooms next year (we missed the blooming season this year). A local library had them and the yellow cup blooms smell wonderful!.
 MouseOver Special!
Obviously Mom's ploy worked. By bringing in cosmos that were already blooming,
the other bed of cosmos by the pear trees have started putting out a few blossoms.
These beautiful lilies are blooming in the front yard, near to where I planted the new toad lilies.
Thank goodness, this is the only bunny that I've seen around my garden.


Week Four:
The Hard Life of Being a Celebrity
   
Some of you might remember a few years ago when I had my picture on the front of the Canton newspaper, The Repository. The picture showed me filling up Darth (Jim's Hydunai) and the article quoted me complaining about the rising gas prices during the middle of the winter. I vaguely remember talking to that reporter as I was on my way back to be with Jim in the hospital.
This article was published two days before I turned 46, and came out the day of the blizzard causing me to be snowed into the hospital with most of the staff. As there weren't many people around and as I had already been around quite a few for nearly two weeks, many of the staff recognized me in personal and from this picture, and stopped me in the hallways to chat.
   
A few years later, my picture and my quotes have been published again. Not long ago, the editor of Poz magazine, which hosts the aidsmeds.com site and the forums (poz.forums.com) requested stories about HIV+ people and their pets. I'm pleased to let you know that my story was one of a few to be selected for publications.
By now you should all know how much my pets mean to me and how I credit them with being why I'm alive today. If you don't know, or want to hear the story again, please use this link to open up the Poz site and the article with my story. My story is about the 6th one down in the article.

Another Rally at the Capital
Twenty yrs. ago I attended a rally in Cleveland OH to protest FOR the very HIV meds themselves.
Twenty yrs. later I attended a rally in Columbia SC to protest for adequate ACCESS to those HIV meds that we know save lives.
 
(can you believe two decades ago I was actually protesting to take AZT mono-therapy?!?  Shocked Cheesy But I have to give it credit for helping to keep me alive until something better came on the market, so I can't complain about it too too much. Wink )
 
When I went to the SC ADAP Funding Cut protest rally in the middle of March, SC didn't even have a waiting list. Though we were able to get some funding put back into the budget, we weren't able to stop the list from beginning. Now, just two short months later and there are 112 people on the list for this state.

Back on March 9, NC's ADAP waiting list had 168 people, but that has increased by 315% in two months to 530! The drastic jump to the position of largest waiting list in the nation was partially due to even more people testing positive, needing meds, and needing assistance to get access to the meds; but the foremost reason for the increase was a change in NC ADAP requirements. The changes have now literally forced people using the program last month to be ineligible for help in getting access to meds that cost around $2200 a month.

Unfortunately that same change in requirements is coming to SC this next month.
 
SC ADAP has grown significantly over the past few years. The program served an average of 2100 patients a month last year, representing an increase of nearly 15% from the previous year. However, funding of the current year has decreased drastically from last year. HRSA ADAP Base funding was cut by 3%, HRSA ADAP Supplemental funding was cut by 21%. In the absence of additional funding, the program will be forced by September 1, 2010 to remove an estimated 900 active patients. People currently receiving meds will find their access gone and be forced to find others ways to fund their prescription needs.
 
But the news just continues to worsen.
 
The legislature is once again debating not just cutting some of the funding as they had told us after the last rally; but all of the funding. The newly-passed House budget doesn't just cut the monies by 51%, as we were told in March; now the budget has ALL funding removed. Unless convinced to stop, SC will stop funding ADAP ($2.4 million), and all HIV prevention ($1 million), and much, much more. Other cuts include: Vaccine Purchases for Underinsured Children, EMS Statewide Data System, Environmental/Restaurant/Septic Inspections, Water Quality Monitoring, Health Regulation - Nursing Home Inspections, Chronic Disease Prevention - Diabetes, Youth Smoking Prevention & Cessation, Colorectal Cancer Screenings, Hemophilia Services, HIV Prevention, Rural Hospital Equipment and Facilities, USC Rural Health Clinics
It was warm, overcast, and muggy outside of South Carolina's State House in Columbia where approx. 200 protestors gathered to rally against the proposed budgetary health care cuts (ADAP, HIV prevention, nursing home inspections, statewide EMS system, rural health clinic, uninsured children's vaccinations, etc).
For over three hours, the protestors displayed signs on the streets surrounding the capital and the front steps to the building. Some of the many speakers included the state ADAP director, several pastors, the director of the FAITH outreach program, and various case managers, advocates and clients.
 
   
 
The previous rally had been held inside the State House and my quick head count totaled 300+. This time the rally was outside the front of the State House steps. Unfortunately, the crowd was smaller this time, consisting of 200+. The smaller group could be attributed to the fact, that the ADAP cut had come so fast and the rally arranged so quickly.
 
Several Democrat House Representatives,
who have been busy trying to get the health care funding back into the budget,
spoke to the crowd also.
Representative
Joseph H. "Joe" Neal
Richland & Sumter Cos.
Representative
Bakari T. Sellers
Bamberg, Barnwell &
Orangeburg Cos.
The final budget should be approved by Thurs as the House and Senate are still battling out the final details. The Republican controlled House was able to keep a $10 million loan for a private golf tournament in the budget. However, the Democrats in the Senate are fighting to get the health services put back into the budget before passage. A short time ago, the Republicans had removed the money for the health services (which had already been compromised to half the original amount) after the Democrats refused to approve a large budgetary increase to keep the court system funded.
 
Though I went alone as a rep for the Catawba Care Coalition (my local ASO and clinic), I didn't go totally alone. Randy and Jim went with me in spirit.
For me, this rally was all the more poignant, as May 25th marks the 16 year anniversary of my first partner's (Randy) death, who attended that rally in 1990 in Cleveland with me. Unfortunately, meds didn't come soon enough to save his life. Let's hope the legislators heard our appeal now and provide adequate funding for the ADAP program so people won't have to die now, when we have meds that are life-saving and life-sustaining.
News and Video Reporting of the Rally
WLTX reports "State House Protestors Rally Against Cuts to AIDS Drug Funding"
ABC reports "Dozens Rally in Support of HIV/AIDS Medication Funds"
NBC WIS reports "Hundreds rally to protest AIDS funding cuts in state budget"
 
Previous News Articles
"S.C. budget cuts target health care programs for poor"
"Cash crunch could cripple court system"
"Big Government Golf Stays In SC Budget"
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leatherman
Late Breaking Update!
According to the Columbia SC newspaper, The State,  in a small article ("Senate rejects health cuts") that was just published late the day after the rally, there seems to be good news after the rally.
The S.C. Senate refused Tuesday on a 29-14 vote to accept House changes to the state budget that would end free cancer screenings for poor South Carolinians and would take away AIDS treatments from indigent patients.

The legislation now goes to a House-Senate conference committee, where the differences in the two versions of the spending plans will be worked out.
 
I haven't heard back from anyone from the rally; but as I read it, the Senate rejected the health care cuts and has authorized a committee to work on including the health care costs back into the budget. While this still may not be the perfect solution (have to wait and see), at least it's a step back in the right direction of caring for our citizens' health issues before golf tournaments.
 
In emailing back and forth with the director of Catawba Care Coalition, I was put in touch with the local newspaper, The Fort Mill Times. The very small paper (usually 2 section with 15-20 pages) is delivered free and usually has very little news; but it is all news pertinent to our small local area. They are looking to write up an article about the ADAP rally and I offered to give them an interview. Little by little, I am building my celebrity status.

Public Indecency
As the weather has gotten nicer and nicer, more and more bugs have been out. I've also seen more of the little anole lizards running about too. This little guy stayed perched on the front window screen, treating it like some "red light district" by puffing out his red throat to signal to the girlie lizards that he was horny and ready.

Around the Yards - Again
   
This is the week from up near the pet cemetery in the front yard,
looking back towards my deck, and the garden
After I took the previous picture,
I realized the hedges needed a haircut.
   
Looking from the woods past the garden to the dogz' yard
The garden is looking good.
I've made a few more changes in the garden this past week. Some zucchini that I was growing in pop-bottle greenhouses were finally ready to plant. I planted them in a row behind the cucumber trellis and gave them a fence to climb up as they grow.
One of the cantaloupe plants is really taking off, so I gave it a piece of trellis to run on as it moves out of the raised bed and down onto the ground.
I've got a few more things to plant yet, that I'm babying along. I'm hoping this one butternut squash and two pumpkins. I'm not exactly certain where I'm going to eventually to put these plants; but I'll find somewhere.
An Unexpected Harvest
One day I check on the broccoli and everything looked fine (see the pix on the left). While the heads were shaping up nicely, I estimated they were about half-grown. However when I went out the next day, the heads were already beginning to flower and I had to harvest them. I'm wondering if the bug problem (see the chewed up leaves?)  stressed out the plants and caused them to bolt early. Thankfully both broccoli plants I have are growing a few amount of secondary heads so there is still more broccoli to come in the season.

Week Five:
Have a pleasant, safe Memorial Day, and take a moment to remember those who have died to protect the freedoms we cherish in America.

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